Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone asks you "what you can do or what you do" and you don’t know where to start?
It has happened to me before, and it can sometimes be very
challenging because you don’t know where to start, especially if you are a
multi-skilled person like me.
However, let me share my secret with you.
- Know yourself
How deeply do you know yourself and what you can do?
Do you know the things you’re good at? Do you know your
strength and how it can be of assistance to others? If you were to tell
yourself now who you are, what would you say about yourself?
This is exactly where you start because you can't tell somebody what you can do without knowing yourself properly.
Take time to go deep into yourself to know what you are good
at; your education; your skills; your work experience, etc. Your curriculum
vitae should be at your fingertips as a professional.
- Know your environment.
This refers to wherever you are or is attempting to find
yourself. Let’s say you find yourselves at a conference. You should be able to
know who the attendees are, their activities, and possible interests. This will
allow you to know what to say to anyone that may confront you with such a
question.
The knowledge of your environment will permit you to be
precise in telling someone what you can do that may interest him.
- Be direct and down to earth.
I once wrote an article where I advised people to be direct
and customized in their answers to the question of what they can do.
When you use titles like CEO, manager, operation manager,
etc., people don’t relate to you in your presentation. But when you say what
you can do, it relates to you easily. If you tell someone, for example, that
you are an account manager for a bank, he may not understand, but if you tell
him that you can assist him in creating and managing his bank account, he will
understand more clearly.
If someone asks you that question, go straight ahead and
tell him what you can do and not your title, because he may need your
services.
- Understand how to tell someone about your abilities.
As mentioned above, knowing the people you have around you
can help you know what to tell them, especially if you are a multi-skilled
person. If you know a skill would not interest someone, don’t go there. Stick
to what can interest him, so you don’t talk too much and may make him
uncomfortable.
Start with a problem you can solve that may be related to
him. This is one of the approaches that I often use, and sometimes it works.
When someone asks you what you can do, he is simply asking
what you can do for him or someone he knows. So, starting by citing a problem
you can solve can help him relate to you better.
Let me take the case of a nurse. If someone asks a nurse
what he can do and he tells him I am a nurse, it may not relate well, but if he
tells him if you are sick or have health problems, I can be of assistance and
support. That one will stick with him more than just being a nurse. People are
more preoccupied with solutions to their problems than with other people’s
titles.
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